Yo Bro, I’m OK that you died in the early days of the pandemic, you were too. Five years in the nursing home was a bitter pill after a life as “Mr. Big” in N.Y. It’s a relief that you aren’t out there fighting the boundaries, goading the nursing home admins and staff, resenting that no one wants to take the time to philosophize about larger issues with you.   So yeah, I’m OK with it except that the hole in my heart is pretty big. Barbara